3 Relationship issues and how to get through them
3 Relationship issues and how to get through them.
What kind of relationship have you had with your beloved partner? Do you have a satisfying, complementary relationship, and the days are going to be happy?
After some time has elapsed, most of the relationships between partners will collapse into the following comfortable patterns:
- Accept each other and give up the roles that already exist in each
- Make agreements and commitments so that each one plays a specific role
- Maintain distance
- Mutual secrets and dissatisfaction
- Stuck in a situation where each one is dishonest but 'keeps in touch'.
What Are the Frequently Problems?
Every partner certainly has hopes for the relationship that is being carried out. But there are times when situations seem stressful and problems are difficult to avoid, so that a harmonious relationship must 'trip' over the obstacles. Sometimes these 'stumbles' can be perfectly resolved, but they can also lead to the end of a relationship.
In fact, it's easier to talk about day-to-day problems than to discover the dynamics that underlie problems in a relationship. This is because the two parties naturally have different perspectives and mindsets, which can be difficult to reconcile.
Here are some of the most common areas for problems between partners:
- Lack of time together
- Saturation in relationships
- Addictive behavior / hobby of one partner
- Violence / rudeness / anger in relationships
- Household arrangement problems
- A common goal between the two couples
- Dishonesty / lack of trust
- Problems with in-laws
- Criticism from spouses
- Finance
- Sexual problems and lack of intimacy
- Jealousy
- Communication
- Child problems and parenting
How to Get Around Problems in a Relationship?
For each form of problem faced, requires different tactics and ways of handling. Here are some ways to solve the three kinds of problems that most often arise in relationships:
Problem: Communication
Almost all problems in relationships stem from poor communication. Unfortunately, the sophistication of the times and the advancement of telecommunications devices are able to cause someone to be 'fixated' to update everything that is visible on their smartphone , not on their partner. Sit down with your partner, remove all forms of communication, and share each other's feelings and grievances . Talk about things in a kind way (without raising your tone or without accusing you), and also listen to what your partner has to say.
Problem: S**ual
Husband and wife relationships are sometimes colored by the problem of one party's dissatisfaction with their s**ual activity. There are times when your partner needs s** that is more frequent, more varied, more spontaneous, but they don't tell you. S** is actually able to bring husband and wife closer physically and mentally. For this one problem, you are expected to be sensitive to your partner's needs. Or if you feel discomfort during s**ual activity, be clear and don't cover it up.
Financial Problem
Financial problems can arise even before the wedding ceremony is held. Are you satisfied with your partner's income? Or are you just not happy with the way you manage your money? Finance is a classic issue that requires openness on both sides. Sit down together and be honest about your current financial situation. Be open about income and debt. By sticking to your financial status, tell if there is an imbalance / mismatch between your lifestyle / partner and your financial condition. Look for a way out together, do you need help in finding an income? Do you need to set a monthly expenditure budget ? Don't blame your partner for not being constructive, instead, talk about possible solutions.
There is almost no partner who does not face problems in their relationship. There are times when the problem is a form of test for the commitment of each party. If the relationship is viable, your ability to maintain the relationship will strengthen the bond between partners and increase the likelihood that you will be able to get over other problems that arise in the future.
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